Я не знаю, как это произошло - вероятно, что-то на стартовой ютюба было, а я там смотрела студенту видос для френча... (не знаю, как ещё отмазаться) ... И, видимо, моя весьма специфическая личная жизнь довела, но - посмотрела несколько видео какого-то амер."коуча" отношенческого. Ну вот эта вся херня "Как узнать, что он тебя любит", "Как добиться того, чтобы ваши отношения..." - вот это всё. Не знала даже, что оно и на ютюбе водится в таких количествах - думала, это семинарное по большей части. Так вот наткнулась на клёвый коммент, прям вот человек высказался, я похихикала:
I watch these videos sometimes just to see what level of ridiculous they can reach.
The ones directed at women send the message men
читать дальшеhave all the power and what tricks women must do to gain power. The advice directed at men put women in power and what tricks men must do to gain power. Funny, huh? Seems being susceptible to this marketing ploy is the one and only thing men and women have in common.
Scratch the surface and it would appear this is to capitalize on fear and vulnerability. Tell 'em everything they do is wrong. Tell 'em they are doing things wrong they don't even know they are doing. Convince 'em the other person has super powers and can pick up the scent of desperation still clinging to them from that time they got turned down at the Junior High dance.
Oh, but wait...
Those super powers don't seem to extend to being able to see through these tactics. Again, funny, huh?
Create a problem to sell a solution. Pretty clever.
For those who swear following this advice worked for them and is therefore truth, I say good for you. I'm glad you found something that brought you the result you wanted. But please... stop perpetuating the notion of it as an absolute. You are ignoring a very important constant that is actually a truth. Are you ready for it? Here goes:
CORRELATION DOES NOT EQUAL CAUSATION
Enough said...
Ciao